My mother, I know for sure, didn't believe in communicating with the spirit world or VV. My dad probably didn't either. The only other time I know that my dad spoke to me was when my daughter was a baby and was running a 106 temp. I almost lost her. My dad's voice woke me up from a dead sleep and told me "Wake up! Your baby needs you!" If he hadn't waken me up, she would have died for sure.
My mother has NEVER communicated or made herself felt in the 22 yrs she's been gone... until the other night.
Now the grandmother! That's something else again. She was one of my perps. She told my mom that when she died, she was going to come back to get her. My mom told her right then and there to leave her alone! Yet, she'd feel her mother quite often. I've smelled her and felt her presence and I always tell her to go back where she came from. I didn't want her around me when she was alive. I sure don't want her around me now!
There was a time, shortly after my dad died, that a car load of family saw him standing at our front door. It was unmistakable HIM. Everybody in the car said his name or Uncle David. Of course, we were all shocked. He was another one of my perps so I hardly ever think of him. He's been dead for 54 yrs.
These two experiences are really rare for me... except that when I was speaking to my mom, I thought I'd be crossing over really soon. Guess not. It was later confirmed by my MD. YAY!
Can't say that I'm looking forward to any more of these "revelations." LOL Especially from my dad!
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.