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Originally Posted by divine1966
Since you have college degree it's unlikely you have such slow processing speed that you can't ever converse with people. Plenty of people are shy. It's neither fair nor unfair. It's what it's. Why are you comparing yourself to others? You feeling inferior has nothing to do with shyness. You can be shy and confident. Why don't you see a therapist or a doctor about your concerns?
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Yes, you can be shy and confident, but being confident while you have a slow processing speed is very difficult, because the fact is, most people will NOT like you or respect you if you put yourself out there. If you are a female maybe, but as a male, no. It is ingrained in our culture that unintelligent males are worthless. Ironically, I think I am way more intelligent than most of these people who would pass judgement on me. But if you can't show people that you are intelligent, it doesn't count.