I agree, you have to do what you have to do and be aggressive about it. Keep me updated, if you can. I'm only twenty and I probably could relate more with your daughter but I can also say that at this point in my life, I'm so happy I had my mom. She was hard on me sometimes but she was the only one who looked out for me at the end of the day. Your daughter will get there, too. Us kids are blind until reality hits us.