Thanks, Malady, I started therapy again last Monday to deal with this issue from my past. It's long over due, I think. I can see what you are speaking about my present presenting the same patterns. There is a lot of abandonment involved in my current relationship. . . and its very tough to deal with. The issue that I always fly back to has to do with abandonment as well. Hmmm. . . thank you for your insite!

Beth