Sounds like he's not doing the work here, which doesn't truly set the example of upholding the vows. Staying out until all hours, meeting up with women. Justifying his choices by playing off your understandable resentment when he needs to reestablish trust and commitment.

Does sound like you both put in some incredible amount of work hours. Is that adding to retirement years or to keep up with the bills? I ask because parents influence children in financial matters. Would you be able to model healthy financial behavior if divorced?

A consult is worth the time. Here you get 30minute consultations for free, as you search around.

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