I'm in new relationship. Trying to keep my past as past.

I categorized myself as asexual because I never felt need of sex and neither do I now. My boyfriend feels that he will be able to get me to feel need of sex. I don't want to disappoint him, so I try to react to his touch.

He told me that in his experience, females were always required to be aroused. None of the females themselves come forward with need sex. Guys on the other hand only think about sex. It is normal as per him and I'm not asexual in his eyes.

I want to know from other females, do they have urge for sex? Is it true that guys had to arouse them to feel the urge? And how do I know I want to do it?

Male point of view is also welcomed from their experience with their female partner.