Just a short question.

Does talking about your fantasies lessen their intensity or make them disappear?

That was my fear when I shared the Little Girl fantasy with T. I think I actually said I didn't want her to take it away or make it go away. She assured me she wouldn't do that. .. But it seems as if it isn't there quite as much or with as much intensity. I feel sad about that.

Maybe it served it's purpose when I spoke about it?

Does this happen with you if you share fantasy with your T?