Do not have closure and taking my time to think this over.
She says she wants to be with me and is ready to work on the marriage. Has promised not to ever communicate with any of these guys and changed emails/phone numbers, blocked numbers etc. Has offered all her online passwords and is open to ad-hoc checks. Shares details that I ask for.
Would say we are almost giving this one more chance. what remains to be seen is if I am going to make it through.
The guys get disfigured nevertheless - ultimately. No hurry on this and thinking it through. Have I gone psycho? I don't care about that answer too much.
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Originally Posted by Yoda
Personally I believe that if you are not happy in a relationship you leave the relationship, not have affairs. What your "loving wife" did is unacceptable.
To me the most important parts of a successful relationship are trust and respect. You have neither with your wife.
Take some time to deal with the raw emotions that you are now experiencing until you can think more clearly and make decisions based on reason rather than anger. I am not saying you should not be angry, quite the contrary, I would be very angry.
If I were in your situation I would see a therapist to help you deal with the emotions. When people walk away from you let them go! Your destiny is not tied to the person that left (left emotionally).
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