I was a bit confused when reading this tread because you (the person who started this thread) is an adult but whats being posted is situations that here in my location is what a teen ager mad at their parents would post.

I went back over your past posts. I see that you are 26 but are a disabled person with problems with understanding \performing more than one task. unable to work because no one will hire you due to your limitations.. your past posts state many times about relationship problems with friends and family. that you dont understand why they say and do what they do...

lets see if I can break this problem in this thread down a bit for you.

you are angry at your parents because they took your phone and tablet away and dont understand why.

posting online is not like writing in a private diary that only you get to see. everyone in the whole world sees what you post. sometimes if you post things about other people it makes other people feel bad.

think about something you did wrong. now think about how you would feel if someone in your church posted online about what you did wrong. would that make you feel good that they were talking bad about you? probably not right.

your parents saw that you were talking bad about someone in your church, so they had to make a rule that you were grounded off your cell phone and tablet.

why are your parents treating you like a child. because children do what you did. an adult doesnt go out and buy a new phone and tablet when they are told no. they get told no and go without until they they are told they can do it again. this is called accepting responsibility for doing something wrong.

think of it like this when you do get a job, because you are an adult you will be expected to follow the rules. not act like a child and go behind your boss's back and keep doing wrong after they tell you no.

if you want people to like you and treat you like the adult your age you will need to do what people your age do by following the rules. right now your parents are making the rules so you will need to follow their rules, someday when you have a job your boss will be making the rules for working and you will need to follow their rules.