Hello all,

I had a break up at the beginning of the year, and because I still miss him I've been sporadically checking up on my ex online. I've been blaming myself for the relationship failure until today, when I found out that he considers himself to have a love addiction – a fear or concern which he didn't share with me. So I've been trying to understand it. It seems it's the process of falling in love that's important, followed by an inability to actually sustain a relationship. Can anyone help me understand this further? Obviously I'm still living in the past and this isn't helpful to dwell on, but curious how you might understand it and its impact on your life and relationships...