What are some things that people tend to blame BP for? For example, my old pdoc tried to blame my ADHD problems on BP, and I disagree with that.

On the other hand, consider this example: sometimes people blame their BP for certain destructive behaviors they have when they're not in an episode. In that case, I don't think BP causes you to do something like, say, hardcore street drugs. You do those drugs because you want to, not because BP "makes" you do it.