Maybe the "comfort" you find is simply in being part of a pair... Not everyone is comfortable alone.


But that being said, at what price are you willing to hold on?


Are you reaping the rewards of what you're investing into this man, this relationship?


If you make a pros and cons list, which side wins, is it neck and neck or by a landslide?


Are you willing to sacrifice yourself just for the sake of not being alone?


I mean what is the absolute worst that can happen if you leave?


Your world won't collapse and your breath won't be taken from you.


Life will go on...


I've loved men who were bad for me, the worst I loved almost on principal alone. I said I would, so I decided to keep my word.


Not a bad characteristic, but not a good one when it nearly gets you killed and makes you question your sanity every other week.


It was toxic as hell.


Yes, love endures, but true love is reciprocal.


It doesn't endure torture from each other, it endures whatever obstacles life throws your way. Together, as a team.


Remember that.


The longer we hold onto the wrong people, the less chance we afford ourselves of having the right people.


Take me for instance...

If I didn't leave my ex when I did, I wouldn't have given my current bf a chance and he would've left and gone abroad again. But because I was single and we were catching up, (Old friends) he decided it was worth it to stay on dry land.


Ps. I don't mean for you to answer the above questions, just some points for you to think on.


Self preservation is more useful than martyrdom.


I wish you well.