My "gut" feelings are almost always right. I know the exact sick feeling you are experiencing. And why would your husband get mad over the question you asked, unless he was feeling guilty. I can not believe his lack of respect for you and others at the party to display affection toward this girl. Whether he is usually affectionate or not. I think his actions have made it obvious he has something going on with the girl. After so many years of marriage I can not understand anyone treating their partner that way. If he wanted to be with someone else he should be a man and be honest! I would not want to stay around for the rest of his show! The man is a creep and other words not allowed on this site! I hope you will not allow him to continue his affairs in front of you. If it is any comfort she wont be around long anyway. Im sure she will break his heart when she finds someone else. You know she has no class or self respect if she would behave that way with a married man,