Believe it or not, I didn't not love my ex when I left. Which sounds retarded considering what he did to me. But he was my first real bf, my child's father so I sure as hell didn't hate him when I left.


I left because he was bad for me, bad for my child, and i figured best to jump ship now than wait for things to get even worse and scar my child for life.


I know its a long shot, but don't you think its better to leave before all good feelings you have toward him are gone?


Who knows, maybe under the right circumstances you two remain friends or your break up inspires and motivates him to get help.



That's what happened with me... My current bf broke up with me due to me not handling my shyt and dragging him down with me.


I sought professional help (without him knowing) and we managed to get back together....


We don't have to wait until we get burned to ash before we decide enough is enough, sometimes walking away is best for both involved.


There's absolutely nothing wrong with loving the good the bad and the ugly in someone, as long as that person fully reciprocates, and it never hurts you to do so.