First thing that came to mind here Pikku. Thing is there are two things to be careful of here. First that he's not wanting to be with you in order to be a rescuer. Some guys (even myself so I speak from experience) try to be a white knight in a way and are drawn to those that need help because if we can be the one to "save them" it gives us our "value" It is in and of itself, a dysfunction the same as wanting to be with someone because they are wanting to save us. It's a very real dynamic.

That brings me to your statement that he is your match. Is he your match or are you attracted to this man because he is trying ot save you or fix you? There is something going on in some situations where one willl pllay the part of the one needing help and the other plays the helper. The problem with this dynamic is that it is so dependent on the other that neither of you will lknow how to behave once the real crisis is gone.

TBH you should be attracted to someone that wants and allows you to be independent and healthy but does not take it on as their responsibility to make happen. You should be on equal footing and in this I do not see that happening. Once you're fixed or have gotten to a more stable place, what is goign to happen? Will he get bored and leave? Will you get bored and leave? Will you both find you're in limbo then and create situations where the dynamic is continued?

Some things to ponder. I dunno if he's your match or not. only you can know that but just consider those things too