That's what screwed up my relationship. I dared find fault with a perfectionist. I realize that in the beginning, I tolerated everything and didn't criticize at all because I 1. Didn't want to see fault, 2. Wanted the relationship. But as soon as we were truly committed and he started to do something that really hurt me and started doing things I really couldn't handle, and I expressed how I wanted him to change, the whole relationship went downhill on a steady decline.