You have this long post describing stuff, then at the end it says 'ps: she loves her fiance'. And halfway you mention that in the stuff you told earlier, she rejected you. I don't see anywhere where you offered her anything and she said 'no'.[/quote]

I told her that I Love her and wish to spend the rest of my life with her, but she said she doesnt want me to tell her such things as she already know and she doesnt know what to do and she feels that she is doing wrong to her fience but she didnt actually do anything to make it right.

[/quote]You also tried to guilt her. You brought up that you think she shouldn't be talking to you as much because of her fiance. Right? What's the point of that? If you think this relationship you are having is wrong, why are you facilitating her? And then blaming her?[/quote]

I didnt know what to do, I love her but feeling guilty about it already but the way she behaves confuses me, I didnt know what she wants she doesnt want to let me go but she says that she loves her fience what am I suppose to do while she knows that I am in love with her??? may be I was pushing her to make a choice somehow even if that choice was leaving me because I sincerely didnt want to leave her though I tried but wonderfully even what you saw that I am making her feel guilty did not work with her and she degraded the whole issue to its nothing[/quote]

I personally agree with most stuff that Talthybius said, sorry bro.

FIRST OF ALL, Why is the title of the thread named "I am 25 and She is 26"? I mean, what does age has to do in anything of this?

I've been in similar situations and THE BEST thing you can do is remain as friends. I'm sorry you're going through this, knowing the fact that you felt (And might still feel) a connection, but, What would you do if this woman broke up with her fiancce just for being with you? He's her fiance, not just her boyfriend. You should know this already buddy, she hasn't cheated him fourtunely, but a cheater will allways be a cheater, so, if she cheated him with you, what could stop her from cheating you in any future?

I might be sounding rude already, sorry if i do, really. Maybe it's just her pesonallity, a friendly woman after all.

Last semester i met this girl, pretty, funny, smart and since i first met her, i noticed that we caught up a few glances towards each other. She was new in the class and also a bit shy, so i invited her to join my group (She accepted) and some of these things kept going.
So once i decided to break up theice and have a full conversation with her, and we had a really nice time, BUT she mentioned that she had a boyfriend, so i decided to take some distance since then and... Until now, we still are good friends!

What i mean is, even if the connection is real, it doesn't mean it's meant to be a relationship with romantic interests.

Hope my words could serve you, welcome to PC and be safe