I recently went out on a date with a guy, but he has yet to initiate contact with me since I told him I had a good time, after he took me home.

So now I'm looking am looking at new guys on OKCupid to keep myself busy and distract myself from being sad that he hasn't talked to me. I contacted one guy whose profile I really liked earlier today. Basically, I decided to initiate contact with a message that talked about something we both had in common, which was that we were originally from Minnesota. My message basically said something like "You're from MN too? Nice place with all those lakes, but bad for mosquitos, right?"

He was online at the time, and still is, but has yet to say a word back to me. A lot of guys do this. What am I doing wrong here?