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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Whoa, you made me realize, the guys didn't do what I liked to do for the most part. I did what they liked to do.
The college serious BF hated my friends. But then I find out he slept with them.
There isn't really that much that I like to do that would include a partner. I acted or sang. The bfs and husband came to see me perform, but they didn't participate.
I had a BF with a catamaran and I loved doing that with him and liked his boat friends, but he dumped me.
OMG how do I like MY eggs? I'm like the Runaway Bride! I'm the Runaway Wife!!!  |
Take some time to figure out what you want to do and devote your time to that. Singing? Join a community chorus group. Catamaran? Go to a place where you can rent one, and take lessons on how to do so.
Doing what your SO likes to do all the time makes for deep seeded resentment and overall unhappiness. Don't go that route. Do things for yourself. Do what makes you happy and isn't something to do to make your SO happy. Relationships are about give and take.