yeah... me either. Sad thing is that i have a T i feel is a really good guy, but i can't let him in. Can't care and can't let him care. i prevent it.

Pink... do you think the difference is the type of T? Mine is CBT-schema, and we often have mini-debates over my hatred of CBT. i am wondering if maybe his "cognitive focus" is maybe what makes me back up from him. Your T seems to have what i call "the emotional lure" down pat. He lays out an emotional setting for you to join in.