When my daughter was young it was very bad. I'd be laying on the couch and she would play with her toys and then come to me saying she was hungry and I'd get upset( mostly cause most of the day had gone by and I had done nothing with her) But she knew I loved her. She knew something was wrong and i often told her it wasn't her fault.
She grew up is fine doesn't blame me for those times and is a healthy woman in a solid relationship.
Now she's 33 and has a son of her own and is BP too. Fb freaks her out too, thinking she should be doing all these special projects and taking trips everywhere. my grandson has always had a long attention span to watch movies and she worries about that and letting him watch so much tv. But there are days she just can't cope but she does her best and my grandson knows mum loves him.
Kids are much more resilient than we credit them with. Do the best you can and don't let those misleading fb posts get to you.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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