I think I may have some narcissistic tendencies, and I know that I tick people off, and sometimes they find ways to get even.

When I get the sense I'm dealing with payback... I vacillate between feeling angry at them on one hand, and feeling like I deserve their wrath, on the other.

I'm at a loss. What other way to approach what I'm dealing with?

Can anyone else relate? I think (hope?) it may be a common human problem....