Jinn,

I was emotionally abused by my mother and verbally/emotionally/physically abused by my step dad . When I started therapy all the emotions ( guilt , fears , hatred ) all surfaced like I did and was reborn.... I never regretted going to my T it has changed my perspective on it s wasnt my fault and that my parents might have not known at that times ....

What this did was that it made me stronger that today I will not take the abuse anymore from anyone ,,,, I'm happier and I have dreams that I want to fufill one day...

it was hard to talk about the abuse to my mother but she thanked me over n over with tears in her eyes bcos she knows now that she can be the transitional person now and the abuse stopped with me ...

Unfortunately I took this abuse and shared that with my daughter .... and today I work hard to see what it was and stop the cycle so the abuse stops with Dave ....

My dear friend one day you will see the strength of that little girl and open your wings like a butterfly... Right now you are in the transitional stages .... Stages of growth and learning more about who you are ... Jinn be you not anyone else take time to heal but please do not dweel on things that you cannot change .... change the things you know that is incorrect with you....


Dave