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Originally Posted by Pikku Myy
I would say the am sex arousal is the global wave... totally normal. Leave your other thought there  |
I'm trying to. Today the thoughts came out and I was able to suppress them.
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Originally Posted by Deranged Hermit
If you don't find her sexually appealing or you don't like her personality just ask for no strings sex. My own first sexual experience was with a woman I didn't find attractive but others told me she kind of liked me, I asked, "Would you like to have sex?" (an exact quote) and she said yes, 2 hours later I was no longer a virgin and I no longer had a desire for any sex again (at least until I met my wife.) Hell if you live in a place that is ok with paying for sex do it just to get that experience under your belt.
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I've been thinking about doing the no-strings-attached type of thing just to get it out of my system. I just want to know what it feels like.
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Originally Posted by Deranged Hermit
What I found is that sex has been and is over hyped, TV shows, movies, books and nearly every form of media suggest that sex is the greatest thing to happen to men since we decided to come down from the trees. In reality its OK I wont lie but there are several things that people leave out of their stories about sexual conquests. Things like queffing, the absurd sex faces, sweat dripping off your partner when its to hot, the unpleasant smell if a woman doesn't wash properly, the unpleasantness of wearing a condom, the inability to feel any thing between the condom and a woman who has had several children, the list goes on and on.
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The sex faces, sweating doesn't bother me. I've heard of queefing but I never knew it involved sex until I looked it up just a little while ago and that too won't bother me. The fact that a woman doesn't wash properly may bother me. I had no clue wearing a condom would be uncomfortable. Now I know what to expect.
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Originally Posted by Deranged Hermit
If non of this helps you can always look for management techniques that obsessive compulsive people use to minimize their compulsions.
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I think I may do that if all else fails. Thank you for your advice and perspective on this. It really helped!!