tsha,

Yeah I know the trust issues o so well... I have went 35 years of my life not trusting a darn soul because i didnt want to get hurt. I trusted my parents that i would be given a happy childhood. That didnt happened... I trusted my S/O that we would grow old together that didnt happened... So I know the trust issues...

Then one day I had my awakening .... No more was i going to allow others to dictate my feelings... The one thing that I have absolute control over was myself .... I was told by a person the only guarantee in life was that we were goign to die one day ...

Well now I have more friends than ever .... I'm happier than ever... from time to time I do get lonely and I crave some attention but that is about me...

As far as your family telling your story yeah that is a big deal but if we look at it like " Maybe they needed help so they can help you" Some people react differently to trauma and yes this is a traumatic event even to them .....

One of my greatest friends told me one day ::: Dave today is your day make the choices that make you happy " I hold onto those words because it is about our happiness bcos if we are not internally happy how can we ever make others see our happiness...

They say laughter is contagious .... Laugh for no reason and it can cure the woes of life ,,,, Dont sweat the small stuff and everything in life is the small stuff...

TSHA I dont know the story but I would gladly extend my hand to you as a friend ,,,,, You can ask around PC i have big shoulders and I listen very well


T