I had to look up hirtuism. That's an easy one to fix. In the US we have European Wax Centers that do all areas, quickly, affordably.

You did feel attraction when you had that kiss, so you know you have it in you.

You can make yourself look your best with make up, clothes, exercise which does help you feel more confident (in love and in work) and will attract more men to you.

22 is still so young and it's kind of nice that you haven't had to go through heartbreak and trauma.