So I talked to my sup today about the work at home thing. I keep waffling, on whether I want to or not. I want to, but I'm concerned about getting isolated again like at my previous job when I worked at home. I've discussed it with t a couple times and she has been reassuring me that I'm a very different person now than I was then (I started seeing her when I still worked at previous company so she knows) and she thinks I'll be fine. My sup told me today it likely won't be offered again until October. So then without giving myself a chance to think about not asking, I said "Well I need to move then, because (my cube-mate) is a bully on the phone with members and I can't take it anymore she is having a negative effect on me." So I am going to move desks by the end of the week (yay!) down to the end of our row where I will have someone to my left only. And then in October, I'll put in for work at home. I am proud of myself for asking for what I need at work, for acting from my (new) heroine place instead of the old.