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Originally Posted by BayBrony
That is unsettling, that your T purposely waited til past the normal time to email you BC she was angry
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Not BECAUSE she was angry but because she knows I can settle myself and can wait a week to talk about it. I don't think Im ready to do that but I I'll try again.
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Originally Posted by Sarmas
I agree with you. T's feelings shouldn't be involved being that the session is all about you and your feelings and not hers .
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The SESSION is all about me but T never said an angry email directed to her about her behavior after the session is included in that.
LT: I forgot to say that whatever a T is "supposed to do", it isn't the case with my T. She wants to tell me her feelings for a reason. She thinks I must do that with other people too. I know one person who triggers me and I yell at her, which she doesn't like. So my T isn't perfect after all. I'm wondering why a lot of people, not singling out you, have to say what THEIR T does and how wrong that is. What use is that? My T is my T. It didn't bother me. I thought I was rude too. I'm far enough along to know my T wasn't rejecting me, that it was transference.