I still cling to the "not caring" being a "temporary" thing were it to happen with a T, or the T would not keep seeing one? So, I could deal with the T having a bad day and not caring about me that day :-) as long as it was just a "fluke" and there wasn't something "wrong" with me as to why she didn't care for me (I wasn't the right size/shape/didn't say the right things, etc.).

I like that you can express your anger at the boundaries well, Mouse; I always tried to be clever and "entertain" my T, afraid if I wasn't hard working, intelligent, and "fun" that she'd grow bored or not care about me in the sense one often doesn't want to be with an unpleasant or boring person, no matter how much help you think they may need.