How about T's positive feelings? I know this poll is in response to my thread and my T telling me her negative feelings about me, but I love to hear her positive feelings. Not just praise but feelings, like when she says she feels connected to me, or she cares about me, or she has a positive feeling about something I've done in my life.

As far as the negative, I said maybe if it helps me. I don't like to hurt my T or make her angry. That is never my intent. It helps me to see how I can inadvertently do it, that words can and do affect people, and I need to think before I lash out at people. So her feelings are useful to me.