Thanks everyone for your input, I appreciate it. I ended up calling my Pdoc and asking her if we could talk about a concern that I have about my relationship with T and she said that she couldn't guarantee that she wouldn't discuss with T, if she felt that it would be helpful etc....She said that they both have access to my notes and that they are a team.

I'm feeling really disappointed and not sure what to do about keeping my appointment next week with T......