sigh. if someone brings their real life friends in here, then they should be able to handle it... they did it. We can't be responsible beyond being careful for what happens and how they take something. If the two ppl are on the outs IRL, then the rules of the website still need to be followed with being civil here, especially in chat when their words can't just be "deleted" and can affect others more quickly.

I'm sorry you are upset about this... don't let it take up any more of your precious thinking time IMO