Sex is mainly a mind thing, and sometimes the mind makes things better than they are. Not to say it's not good, just overplayed, like Hermit said. It's not a thing to "just get over with," but that's my perspective about respecting women and not just seeing them as sex objects.

I stay busy on the Internet when I can't get out, watch TV, read, clean house (when I'm desperate ), talk to people here in the social groups, etc. Mind you, I'm the mother of two grown sons--and I know what I'm talking about.

Having sexual urges is normal--otherwise, why would people do such a weird thing? But sex ain't all of life, and if it is, life is being unlived.

Okay?