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Originally Posted by unaluna
Im not sure i follow exactly, but - like sometimes i have just directly asked my t, "are you saying you think im wrong in doing this regarding my brother (for instance)". Cuz it sounds like he is taking my brothers side, and im like what? So we just get whatever out in the open. Usually there is a method to my madness that t isnt aware of.
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It wasn't so much about right/wrong in the situation that I'm talking about.
It was more that I said: When my partner says/does x, my first impulse is to do a, b or c. Impulse doesn't mean for me that I would necessarily do this. As we were exploring different options, and one particular situation that happened recently, T just said: How did your partner feel/react about you doing this?
I guess she was just trying to figure out the dynamics in our partnership in that particular situation. But this little remark really sent me downhill...