I think I will go watch some porn. Then tell my husband about it via text msg while he's at work.

It's a personal choice and shaming or judging and asking for support well idk seems fantastical to me.

I'd rather have my husband watch porn beside me in bed doing his thing then him out doing his thing with another woman.

He'd rather the same for me. Oh and exploring fantasy KNOWING its fantasy helps me do the things I want in my head and not go seeking it elsewhere.

Grrrr this topic pisses me off everytime it comes up.

Shame on you and your judgmental self. You have no right! As for your friends. Mind your damn business. Let them work it out for themselves. That's what adults do.

/rant