You're just like everyone. "Get over it, it's better than cheating." I get hurt in both cases. So I'm supposed to go for the less bad one ?

Your response isn't like an adult's at all, by the way. Telling my "I'm going to watch some porn." because I have a problem with it and you know it is like a teenager trying to piss off his mother with his tantrum.
And you are being judgemental, judging me for having a problem with it.

And if it pisses you off, why did you even bother replying ?