I've been in a relationship with a married narcissist for 4 years and I've had enough. He's told me for 4 years he was divorcing. In September 2015 I found out he lied. I haven't allowed him to come see me since June 2015. Today I found out he is still triangulating me and still lying to me about his relationship with his wife. I told him I was done with being his girlfriend and he could contact me after his divorce and he said he doesn't want to yet he calls me his soulmate, partner, love of his life. I sent him me and my daughter's phone to repair because he offered to help me out and now he won't return them to me. I'm at loss. I'm still paying off my daughter's phone and it's worth $480. I don't know what to do. I never had these kind of problems with my ex husband. I am out of my league. He is 16 years older then me . My ex husband was only 4 years older then me. I feel trapped so think I'm going to have to cut my losses because I don't know what else to do. Thoughts?

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