I would say find another T. There are some out there who really do know how to treat it and can handle it. I have had a good T. He took me on from the beginning knowing I was diagnosed with BPD, he never showed fear with my constant suicidal tendencies. It turns out I don't even have BPD...and I have yet to see him since I found this out...but please don't give up just because of this one T. you can find a better one