Has anybody ever done this? I am currently working through the circumstances around my last SA and inpatient stay. I am having a really hard time expressing myself to my wife regarding this. I can sum it up in therapy but then when I am on my own I stumble over my words and cannot explain what was going on in my head. I feel that it is important for her to know where my head was at. Hopefully if she knows she will understand my disease better and not just think that I am selfish.

I am cautious however because I don't want her to go into therapy with me and be combative or defensive. I would love to hear others experiences with this, good or bad.