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Originally Posted by ecoaster
His actions do not match his words. Promising divorce for 4 years with no divorce is ridiculous. If he hasn't by now, its not likely to change.
Is he emotionally, financially or physically supportive? Why have you remained in a relationship with so much dishonesty?
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He has been emotionally and financially supportive when he's not dysregulated. He and his wife own a business together and she told me she wanted to file business bankruptcy before she filed for divorce however the fact that he could tell me he would have her mail me my phones did not sit right with me. Then when I asked her about it she thought I wanted her help with my relationship with her husband. I was like no, all I wanted to know is if your husband indeed gave you my phones. Then I found out from him that she had sent him the email I had sent her where he said he gave my phones to her. This is not the first time this has happened.
He had told me he lived in a foreign country without her she had told me he had not, then she told me that he told her I was lying when I told her that he said he lived in a foreign country without her! That was so shocking I got diagnosed with lightheadedness. The consequence of yesterday's fiasco is I fell off my bike.
Yet he still tells me he loves me, he wants to marry me when he gets his house in order, that now its going to be the middle of October, that I am his soulmate.
In the past people have told me his high level of fantasy indicates a serious mental illness.
He meets with his therapist next Friday.
I found he even lied to me about DBT not being in his city. I looked it up and there was a whole page of DBT therapists.
I have lie upon lie he has told me.