Did I say I was sleeping with him? His wife told me she wants nothing more then to divorce him. Nevertheless I let him know the opinion of this forum.

I have values too and as soon as I found out he lied to me about filing for divorce I ended the romantic relationship.

I took him at his word that he was filing as she did move out.

It was not in my nature to check up on people.

I used to take people at their word, if they said they were going to do something I believed they were going to do it.

I am not in the wrong here. I have not seen this man in over a year. We are just friends now and have been for over a year.

At any rate I have received advice about the phones. I see a couple of people are still blaming me. I recognize as soon as you mention "married man" some people have very strong opinions despite the fact they haven't lived together in 4 years and they say they want to divorce.

I'm not responsible for their lies.

I'm not responsible for him calling me his soul mate, love of his life, true love.

It wasn't my job to check up on his legal activities.

There was no way for me to know someone would even lie about something about that.