Sorry you experienced all these things. Sometimes people use their distance and computer screen to not get emotionally close to others.

Anyone that would say that regular contact in a long distance relationship doesn't matter or is "too constricting", isn't someone worth your time and energy. Imagine how it would be if local? He would probably be closed off and leaving you asking similar questions.

He can bugger off, in my opinion.



"Interrogate your hidden assumptions."-Cornel West