I believe a compromise is in order on holidays.

I see what you mean about imagining how you felt about that post. Completely oblivious to your feelings. What more could she want? It's new years...umm..to have the love of her life by her side as well as being with her closest friends? Maybe how you feel is your responsibility, but relationships are about being accountable to one another on top of it all.

"Interrogate your hidden assumptions."-Cornel West