So I'm interested in where you're getting this information that "violent porn is pretty much the only type people watch."
Do you have a link to this fact, a study that you're referring to or are you just guessing??

And if you're not referring to bdsm you have absolutely NO idea what you're talking about! Do you know what bdsm stands for?

I hate that!

And..."we all know that the porn industry destroys the actress & actors."
Again a generalization on your part.

Porn has not been increasingly messed up, it's been messed up. So I guess you've been viewing it for awhile to see this. European porn has, yrs ago, been ahead in the industry, now with the Internet & amateur sites, America has been playing catch up.

Can you also explain what a "normal sex life" is? I'd really like to know!