my half brother and I reconnected after many years. we have the same father. after 4 months of being around each other, we got very close. it's been 2 years now and we have fallen in love with each other. some of my friends know but my family doesn't. we don't know what to do because we want to be together. I know they do allow family members to wed in new jersey. but the question is about having children... I heard they would come out deformed if we had any. I've been to see a counselor but I've decided that I don't want to change this because it's the happiest I've ever been. I guess I'll have to keep this a secret...