. Lol....neither H nor his parents wanted to hear that something more was wrong with him than just plain old adult ADD....but those words were from his PDOC.....no one wants to admit how really messed up they are....NOT EVEN US.

I would be very careful diagnosing ones self. If thad dx came from a knowledgable pdoc then ok....but too many different diagnoses have the very similar symptoms & to just hear one persons experiences here& think that's the answer is a very dangerous place to go.

Hey, I've been out of my marriage for 9 years now & have no desire to ever be married again. I love my single life & I don't date either. I have several groups of women friends who are all single by divorce or by being widowed. I also have many married friends too. It is NOTHING like it ysed to be in the past. I honestly wouldn't go back to married life unless the absolute RIGHT person ever came along & then they would have to hit me over the head to even get me to notice anything about the possibility if marriage. Doubt that would ever even happen though....too independent at this point.

You seem like you really need to get to know who you are without wanting to be something for someone else.

If sex were the only problem in your marriage it would have been resolved by now....it seems there are other deeper problems going on with both of you that truly haven't even been addressed.