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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I need my t to be strong, she has often spoke of crying but it is something I could never imagine until I seen her this week. It was a very sad experience to see her in so much pain. I wonder how I couldn't have seen any of this happening, there were signs. I chose to ignore them. Maybe this will strengthen our relationship but who knows. It's a lot to keep to myself and I didn't want to start a thread because I felt this would be betraying her but I have to talk about it.
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You couldn't have seen any of this happening because you weren't supposed to see any of this happening. You being a t has no bearing on this.
Not gonna sugar coat this -- Your t has just unfairly forced you into a major mind f##k trap and there is no turning back. Human or not, your t should never have put this on you. She brought you in too deep. The two of you are now entangled. Entanglement, as you know, is not therapeutic or healthy for you. It isn't healthy for your t either.
That said, know that it is very possible to get out of the predicament you are currently in, in time. Meaning, it is possible to successfully "un-entangle" without termination. Only once the relationship becomes healthy for the both of you can the relationship ultimately strengthen.