Hello SongSungBlue: The Skeezyks recalls having replied to your introductory post.

As sophiesmom wrote, just post in whichever forum seems to fit best with whatever the topic of a particular post is. But don't worry too much about this. The women's & men's forums are supposed to be limited to individual's of those respective genders. But, beyond that pretty-much all of the forums are available for anyone to post in, as long as the topic of your post fits in with the subject of the forum. (Am I making any sense here?)
If you do happen to post something in a forum that just doesn't seem to fit, a Moderator may move it... no big deal.

If you're unsure in any particular case, you can always Personal Message a Moderator of the forum you're thinking about posting in & ask if what you want to post there is okay. You can also always Personal Message any member of the Community Liaison Team for help. For the most part, everyone here on PC is pretty accommodating!
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