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Originally Posted by smartiesparty
My boyfriend lied about watching porn. To me, the main issue isn't even the 'cheating' factor.
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First off, that sucks that your BF lied to you.
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Originally Posted by smartiesparty
It is the fact that porn will put unnatural fantasies into his head and I know that when we are intimate he will be fantasizing about those instead of focusing on the present. Worst case, he will bring them up and want to try them and even thinking about it throws me in a fit of anger and sadness. Even worse, he will think that me, as a woman, enjoys being mistreated like actresses in these X-rated videos.
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There's porn for women also called sensual porn. I watched with a former female friend of mine last year. There's no mistreatment or "slam-bam-thank-ya-ma'am" type of behavior in these kind of videos. There's more love-making involved.
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Originally Posted by smartiesparty
My opinion is : These x-rated videos have created a lot of problems in our society, but people keep denying it. They are not educational, they don't bring a couple closer together. They merely destroy bonds in the long run.
What do you guys think ?
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You are entitled to you opinion. However, I do believe it can improve relationships as long as the couple communicates with each other. There's been studies that porn
can actually improve relationships.
5 Reasons Why Watching Porn Together Can Be Good For Your Relationship
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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
Is the OP saying that porn is the problem in the specific relationships she knows about?
Or is the OP making the more general statement that porn itself is The Problem?(without reference to any specific relationships?)
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I'm not sure. I'm assuming she's doing both.