My husband is a therapist who his clients think is perfect. Since I know him, I never had the fantasy that a T was a perfect person. my first therapist i did think was pretty awesome, until she started treating me badly and then did some awful things. this t, i never thought of her as perect, because she is very real and very human with me. she has struggles and a lot of tough things going on in her life. she hasnt ever hid that from me.